Gluttony: The Oft Ignored Sin
But we’re going to focus in first by
commenting on the most obvious analogy from Paul’s language of ‘their God is
their belly’ by talking about gluttony. And we’re going to do this because this
is something you almost never hear mentioned in church anymore. Occasionally we
hear it when it is listed among the seven deadly sins, but that’s about it. We
hardly ever talk about gluttony... Why? Perhaps because it hits too close to
home. It’s always way easier to talk about sins that you know those other
people over there struggle with, and much harder to talk about sins that are a
real issue in our own lives and the lives of our community. And basically
anywhere you go in America, it is a big issue. If you compare food portion
sizes at McDonalds from the U.S. to other countries, for example, the drink
sizes in the U.S. are almost double the size as other places and the fries’
size is about 1.5 times larger in the U.S. This reveals that there is something
cultural about our culture that can encourage gluttony. It’s no secret that
most of us consistently eat much more food than our bodies need.
Another
reason we don’t talk about gluttony is perhaps because it feels kind of rude to
talk about weight, and gluttony can sometimes be associated with being weight. And
the last thing we want is for people to feel judged more for their weight. So
let me say that the goal of this sermon as with every sermon is not to instill
a judgmental attitude in us that zeroes in on the sins or shortcomings of
others, but is to encourage introspection and self-reflection. Because I
guarantee you that every one of us here has some areas where we need to
reevaluate our relationship with food.
And
just because someone is overweight you can’t automatically assume they are
struggling with gluttony. Weight deals not just with overeating, though that’s often
a factor, but it deals with many other factors like genetics, and whether one
has a fast or a slow metabolism, and how much one exercises. So, while gluttony
and obesity can overlap, they really aren’t synonymous at all. And the best way
to illustrate this is to make it quite clear that one can be skinny, and still
be a glutton.
This
is because gluttony is not so much about maintaining a healthy weight as it is
about maintaining a proper relationship with food, and that sometimes overlaps
and sometimes doesn’t. Avoiding gluttony is about making sure we don’t
inordinately prioritize pleasure from eating, and about making sure we are able
to exercise self-control in our eating habits.
So,
again, there can be a skinny glutton. And I’ll demonstrate this quite clearly
with a story from when I was in sixth grade. At that age I couldn’t gain fat if
I tried, but that doesn’t mean I was able to exercise self-control around food.
Just look at what I would do on Halloween and the week following: I would just
gorge myself on candy every night until it was all gone. I had zero self-control,
and the desire within me to eat the sweet, tasty candy was so strong that I was
prioritizing eating the candy over other good things I could’ve been doing. I
was more interested in eating the candy in excess than I was in making sure I didn’t
eat so much so that I couldn’t go play outside without feeling sick. And during
Halloween week I became selfish with my candy. I had an extreme excess of
candy, and yet I’d hate the thought of sharing any candy with my older brothers
who were too old to trick or treat. And my desire for candy led me to be
impatient. Instead of going trick or treating with my parents who would walk
slowly door to door I opted instead to go with friends where we could sprint
between houses, and we were impatient towards the slower kid who lagged behind.
All this to say we can have an improper relationship with food at all weight
levels.
So again, what exactly is gluttony? Interestingly enough, if you read the early church fathers on gluttony, they knew that gluttony was far more than just eating too much food. They identified other possible areas that counted as gluttony. One was eating too soon. A modern example of this is perhaps that if you can’t wait patiently and let yourself be hungry for an hour as your family finishes making dinner, if you catch yourself complaining to the cook, “is it ready yet? is it ready yet?”, you might lack self-control around food, you might be a glutton. Trust me, you can wait an hour for food and you’ll be just fine, you won’t die, you’ll survive. Another area of gluttony they identified was eating too quickly. If you scarf down your food as soon as it’s on your plate, you might lack self-control around food, you might be a glutton. It is bad to your digestion to eat too fast, you risk acid reflux. Further, it takes our stomachs time to get full after eating. If you eat too fast you will overeat and not realize you overate until 10 minutes after dinner when you feel all bloated. Use self-control and eat food at a reasonable pace.
And
one other interesting area of gluttony that they identified was in eating food
that was too expensive or too elaborately prepared. What’s this about? Is it
wrong to treat yourself to a fancy meal every now and then? Absolutely not. Jesus
was accused in the gospels of being a glutton, and it’s because Jesus wasn’t
afraid to feast. There are definitely times and places to feast and to treat
yourself to more food or nicer food than your normally would. But Jesus didn’t
just know how to feast, he knew how to fast.
So
what’s this type of gluttony about that is dealing with food too expensive or too fancy?
It’s basically saying don’t be a food snob. If you’re the type of person who
insists upon only the best stuff, I need to eat at five-star restaurants, I
couldn’t possibly eat McDonalds or eat plain bread and butter, you might lack
self-control around food, you might be a glutton. You might be focusing too
much on pleasure in wanting only the best food that you’re spending more time
and money on food than you should be, when you could be using that time and
money elsewhere. Jesus ate a lot of loaves and fishes in the Bible, basic food,
local to his region. He didn’t demand to always have the best stuff. I think it
is probably a good exercise of self-control to be able to eat tasteless oatmeal
or simple rice and beans every once in a while. The issue with the person who demands only the highest quality food is that it
often leads them away from gratitude and contentment and more towards snobbery.
They might get mean and nasty with a waiter, for example, when they are served
food that is below their standards. Or, they might get cross with their spouse
if they accidentally burn the toast just a little.
Another reason why gluttony is
rarely talked about in church is probably because it’s just not that big of a
sin compared to so many other ones. It feels like it deals more with our bodies
than with our souls. And what’s more important: our bodies or our souls? Our
Souls! And what’s more important: not being mean, or not being gluttonous? Not
being mean! And so on. Right? Compared to many other commandments
in the bible, gluttony seems like not as big a deal. And it might not be as big
a deal as others, but guess what? We’re called to holiness, which means trying
to live in perfection in every aspect. And here’s why gluttony matters more
than we think: because gluttony is ultimately about whether or not we know how
to exercise self-control over bodily matters. And that has huge implications
for many other areas of our life. If we don’t know how to restrain our
appetites for food, how do we know how to restrain our other fleshly appetites?
If in our eating habits we train our body to satiate every desire and appetite
we have, what happens if our lustful appetite desires a person who is not our
spouse? The same self-control that teaches us to be content with our spouse and to
restrain our lustful urges is the same self-control that we use when we
restrain our appetite for food and say, you know what, I don’t need a second
dessert tonight. The same self-control that says dinner tonight was just kind
of plain and basic and not the tastiest thing ever, but you know what, it
nourished me, and I’m grateful, that’s the same self-control that can prevent
greed and let you say, you know what my house isn’t as grandiose as I’d like,
but it does provide me shelter and so I’m grateful, I’m grateful with what I
have.
You see, in some ways gluttony is
not that big a sin compared to others. But in other ways gluttony is very
important because gluttony is just one facet of a bigger picture, a bigger
picture of learning self-control. In Proverbs 25:28 it speaks of a man who lacks
self-control as a city that doesn’t have walls. As in, if you’re not seeking to
exercise self-control, you’re basically putting up zero fight against the devil
and his temptations, you have no walls, no defenses. And learning self-control
in one area will benefit you in self-control in many other areas.
So again, gluttony is just one facet
of a bigger picture, but it all adds up to an important big picture where we
recognize that we must hold each earthly pleasure in its proper place. When
Paul says set your minds on the things of heaven and not the things of earth,
Paul isn’t saying that the things of earth are inherently bad. No, the things
of earth are good gifts that God gives us, but what Paul means is they must be
held in their proper place, they must not be the main priority; Paul knows that
they must be used in moderation to be used rightly. Food is good, we need it to
live, we’re meant to enjoy it, but food can become an idol, the belly can
become one’s god. It’s similar to how rest is good. We need to rest to live,
and God even commands us to rest with his sabbath commands. But one can rest
too much and become slothful and lazy, and being lazy will harm both yourself
and your family and community.
So, as we stated at the start, those
Paul is criticizing whose God is their belly are those hedonists who are
prioritizing earthly pleasures above all else. Now it’s not wrong to pursue
pleasure per se, but I think where these people go wrong is that they pursue
pleasure in ways that will not truly fulfill, and pleasure in ways that are
short-sighted and do not account for long-term consequences.
Solomon learned in Ecclesiastes
chapter 2 that the things of this earth aren’t enough to satisfy us. There he
lived out his life as if his God was his belly, as if the purpose of life was
merely to satisfy all his many appetites. He called it the test of pleasure. He
gave himself to greed, to lust, to gluttony. He gave himself to any pleasure he
could think of: great wealth, beautiful women, power, all of it. And in the
end, did it satisfy him? No, he called it vanity, a chasing after the wind. You
see, we have heavenly appetites that can never be satiated by earthly
pleasures. Our appetite for food, for bread, cannot compare to our appetite for
the bread of life, the bread of heaven. We desire God more than all else
whether we know it or not.
So
they’re pursuing pleasure in ways that won’t truly fulfill, but also, they’re
pursuing pleasure in short-sighted ways. Paul hints at this when he says of
those whose god is their belly that their end is destruction. If we can’t
restrain our desires for pleasure through self-control, we will not live long on
this earth. In pursuing pleasure in material things, we could waste through all
of our savings in the snap of a finger by buying all sorts of cool gadgets or things.
Saving money for the future is boring compared to what we could use it on in
the present, but it is necessary self-control. Similarly, lust may be fun for
the moment, but long-term it will tear apart your marriage, or even if you’re
not married, your lust will slowly create a wreckage of many relationships
around you. Similarly, who doesn’t love just gorging on candy or ice cream or
chips, it’s fun in the moment, but if not done in moderation, long-term it may
lead to serious health issues. Paul is not wrong when he says that for those
who worship the god of the belly, their end is destruction. Lack of
self-control is dangerous to our wellbeing.
It is dangerous to focus on short-term pleasure over long-term planning. And guess what is the most important long-term planning of all? Planning for our future in heaven. If you want the most pleasure in life you have to plan for your future, and that takes delayed gratification, that takes restraining yourself with self-control, but don’t just plan ahead for retirement, plan ahead for heaven. That is the message for today, set your eyes on the things of heaven, not the things of earth, and I say this not because I want to deny you joy, but because I want you to experience joy that lasts and endures for eternity.
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